My apologies, some time away from the guild was necessary for me. The reason: I do not enjoy my soft spots being taken advantage of. I could not bear that a member of the guild was deceiving me as well. This not only hurt me, but nearly caused me to break ties with people I love and regard as family.
Toasty convinced me to come back; but, I do not wish to put up with "facts" that have no backbone or being pitted against people I love. If this boundary is crossed again, I will leave Dragonfly again, but I shall not return, or, at least, I won't be so easily convinced.